Why The Odyssey Matters Now

Why The Odyssey Matters Now

The Barbault Basket, Christopher Nolan, Antonio Mercurio, and the Future We Choose

There are moments in history when seemingly unrelated events converge in ways that invite us to pause and reflect.

Whether we understand such moments as meaningful coincidences, synchronicities, or simply the unpredictable intersections of history, they have the power to awaken our imagination and encourage us to ask larger questions.

Over these last few days, one such convergence caught my attention.

At the very time astrologers have identified as the center of the extraordinarily rare planetary configuration known as the Barbault Basket, Christopher Nolan released his long-awaited adaptation of The Odyssey, one of the foundational myths of Western civilization.

No one can say whether these two events are objectively connected. Nor, I believe, is that the most interesting question.

The more interesting question is this:

Why does The Odyssey matter now

Why has this ancient story returned so powerfully to our collective imagination, to our cultural zeitgeist, at a moment when humanity finds itself confronting unprecedented environmental, political, technological, and moral challenges?

Perhaps great myths never truly belong to the past.

Perhaps they return whenever we need them most.

For more than thirty years, I have read The Odyssey through the work of Professor Antonio Mercurio, the Italian founder of Existential Personalistic Anthropology. Mercurio was convinced that beneath its adventures, Homer’s epic expressed a profound exploration of human transformation.

For Mercurio, Ulysses’ journey was never simply about returning to Ithaca.

It was about becoming capable of freeing ourselves of all the obstacles we can be faced with when trying to become capable of truly loving ourselves and others, while being of service to life.

The monsters, temptations, storms, and shipwrecks were not merely external obstacles. They represented the inner forces that prevent us from becoming fully human: narcissism, unconscious repetition, fear, domination, and our inability to enter into relationships based on mutual freedom rather than possession.

His reading transformed my understanding of the poem.

Yet as I watched Christopher Nolan’s remarkable film, I realized that something else had moved me even more deeply.

Throughout the film, Ulysses is haunted—not by his enemies—but by the suffering he himself has caused.

The destruction of Troy is not presented as a glorious triumph.

It is a wound. By the end of the film, Ulysses’ mind has started going back to the moments when his deceit causes the deaths of so many – all of this caused by the deceitful giving of a gift, something that upends the natural order, or, as Ulysses says in the film “the law of Zeus”.

The deaths of his companions are not simply the inevitable casualties of war.

They weigh upon him. Again and again we see a man who is no longer celebrating his victories but struggling to live with their consequences.

To me, this is the film’s greatest achievement.

Nolan has not simply retold Homer’s story.

He has given us a new vision of what it means to be a hero.

For centuries, Western culture has admired heroes because they conquered. Because they defeated their enemies. Because they proved their strength.

Nolan’s Ulysses offers a different possibility.

His greatness does not lie in his victories.

It lies in his capacity for remorse.

Not remorse that becomes shame or self-hatred.

But remorse that awakens consciousness.

Remorse that allows him to recognize the humanity of those who suffered because of his own actions.

That, to me, is the beginning of true transformation.

Perhaps this is also why the theme of xenia—hospitality and the gift it implies – occupies such an important place in the film.

In Homer’s world, hospitality was not merely good manners.

It was one of the foundations of civilization.

To welcome the stranger before asking who they were was to acknowledge a shared humanity greater than fear.

Today that ancient virtue feels astonishingly contemporary.

We live in an age marked by war, mass migration, deep political polarization often around how countries want to close their doors to the influx of ‘strangers’, and growing suspicion of those who are different from ourselves.

Hospitality, which also implies an understanding that we all have equal standing on the planet tht we share, as well as equal responsibility, is no longer simply an ancient Greek ideal.

It has become one of the defining ethical questions of our own time.

As I write these words, I cannot even step outside my own home and breathe freely.

For days, smoke from immense Canadian forest fires has drifted across Wisconsin, turning the sky into a pale gray veil and making the air hazardous to breathe.

The smoke is more than an inconvenience.

It is a daily reminder that the consequences of human actions do not remain confined to one place, and in the case of global warming, they truly do affect us all. They travel. They cross borders. They enter our lungs, inhibiting our ability to breathe – which ultimately affects our very survival.

They become part of our lives.

Like Ulysses, humanity is beginning to discover that what we do to others—and to the living world—ultimately returns to us.

Perhaps this is why the convergence of the Barbault Basket and Nolan’s The Odyssey has affected me so deeply.

Not because I believe astrology predicts history.

But because symbolic moments sometimes invite us to look at reality with new eyes and to use the information we can gather to make new choices.

Whether or not one finds meaning in the Barbault Basket itself is ultimately a personal matter.

For me, it has become an invitation to pause and ask whether humanity may be standing at one of those rare thresholds where an old way of being has reached its limits, and a new one struggles to be born.

If so, then perhaps the question The Odyssey asks today is not whether we can win.

It is whether we can change, and what our values truly are.

Whether we can look honestly at the suffering we have caused—to one another, to other peoples, to other species, and to the Earth itself—and allow that recognition to transform us.

The film’s closing moments seem to embody precisely this possibility. Rather than ending with conquest or restoration, Nolan gives us something far more moving.

Penelope does not simply welcome Ulysses home; she invites him to sail with her into the future. Together they choose to face the unknown, honor the dead, and create a new life together.

It is an extraordinary ending because it refuses the fantasy that life can simply return to what it once was.

Both have been transformed.

Neither wishes to recover the old world.

Instead, they set sail together carrying memory, grief, responsibility, and a decision to love and to create something new.

To me, this is not only the conclusion of Ulysses’ journey.

It is a vision of what our own civilization might yet become.

Not a civilization that glorifies domination.

Not one that measures greatness by conquest.

But one mature enough to remember, and to feel remorse.

Mature enough to allow remorse to become not an endless expiation, but the beginning of wisdom.

Perhaps this is why The Odyssey has returned to us now.

Not to teach us how to conquer.

But to remind us that the highest achievement of a human being is not victory over others.

It is the courage to become someone who can create beauty after suffering, hospitality after fear, and love after violence.

If Antonio Mercurio was right, Ulysses’ greatest journey was never across the Mediterranean.

It was the journey from unconsciousness to consciousness; from domination to relationship; from power over self and others, to the exquisite kind of power we all have to choose to develop love.

If Christopher Nolan’s film is any indication, perhaps that is the journey humanity itself is now being invited to undertake.

And perhaps there could be no more fitting story for this extraordinary moment in history.

When Ideas Appear at the Same Time in Different Places

Over the past week I have had a truly interesting experience that has caused me to wonder a lot about what the collective unconscious is, how it relates to morphic fields, and how both of them become observable in daily life. 

 During a session with a client, I found myself compelled to combine two techniques that I am specialized in – Family Constellations and Inner Child/Inner Family work. It was an intuition I had in the moment, where it seemed that the best way to help my client really feel what was going on in the issue they had presented was to help them see, contemporaneously, both the larger picture of the situation with the help of Family Constellations, and the internal aspects of those wounded parts that were connected to their early childhood experiences.

 

It was a powerful experience both for me, and my client, and I found myself pondering this in the days to come, feeling that I had reached a new level of understanding in my own personal journey and in how I can best help those that come to me for help in navigating the complexities of healing our woundedness, stepping into feeling more empowered in how we can create a truly fulifilling life, and in simply being human.

I then participated in a Family Constellations workshop, where there were also several other participants who are therapists of varying sorts. I found myself almost gasp out loud when first one, then another, and then a third shared about how they have recently been integrating Inner Child and Internal Family Systems work with Family Constellations!

What I found unusual was not so much that other people are finding this kind of integration useful, both for themselves and for their clients; that seems a rather natural progression of things, as the two approaches truly do complement each other in a variety of ways that I won’t go into here.

What surprised me was the fact that in terms of timing it all seemed to be happening in a rather contemporaneous way, in many of us, but scattered all throughout the globe.

 

 

I was very touched by this and I kind of tucked it away in my mind, to ponder over during the days and weeks to come, as I would begin to explore my own way of integrating things.

 

Then, that same evening, I received a newsletter from yet another Family Constellations practitioner, who lives in yet another far-flung country, announcing how she is also integrating Family Constellations work with Inner Child work!!

Now what seemed to be possibly a mere coincidence truly began to ring of something “spooky at a distance” happening.

I know that most physicists would cringe at my applying that expression, which refers to particles being entangled at a subatomic, or quantum, level, to connections between human minds and cultural trends. I am certainly not a physicist, and so although I have read numerous books on these topics and have been studying how they can correlate with human experience for years, I most certainly do not consider myself an expert on any of it.

But after over 35 years of focused and intentional personal exploration of how our various lenses for interpretation of reality – science, philosophy, art and religion – intertwine and interact with each other, while being distinct, I can’t help but wonder if these experiences aren’t examples of how we experience this dimension of reality.

We are rightly skeptical about drawing correlations when we are dealing with subjective, or personal, experience, and our scientific method has most certainly helped humanity become more capable of drawing objective conclusions about reality, which have allowed us to advance in ways we could have never imagined.

But subjective experience is also a fundamental aspect of our existence, and many thinkers, even within more purely scientific realms, are becoming more courageous about affirming the importance of recognizing how objective and subjective reality are deeply intertwined, and how they then express into human culture through new ideas and practices, which advance our understanding of ourselves and our world, and how we can live better within it.

I have also noticed a kind of synchronicity in how Antonio Mercurio, the founder of the therapeutic and anthropological approach that he began developing in the 1970s and that I specialized in Italy in the 1990s and early 2000s, began first sharing his ideas when working with others around the same time as Bert Hellinger, who was in Germany.

While their general ideas and approaches have many differences, there are also some fundamental similarities in how they saw the challenges that face people who are struggling with a variety of mental and emotional issues.

Their common experiences of having begun both as priests within the Catholic church, who then left the church to found their own schools of thought and practice with a phenomenological approach at their foundation, seems serendipitous, or, in the words of Carl Jung, synchronous.

There are many, many examples of this throughout history, way before there was the internet and our now instantaneous ability to access information of any type. I am sure you have noticed such coincidences within your own life as well.

I invite you to reflect on this and, if you have an example to share, please do so in the comments. It seems important to be able to notice how we are connected with each other in these mysterious, yet profound, ways.

As we become able to observe them with greater consciousness and appreciation, we can strengthen our positive, creative, life-enhancing bonds with others, wherever we may be.

 

If you’re interested in learning more about Jung’s Collective Unconscious and Rupert Sheldrake’s Morphic Fields, I’ve written a companion article comparing these two fascinating ideas:

Collective Unconscious or Morphic Fields? Two Ways of Understanding Human Connectedness

 Click here or on the title above to check it out

 

Amo Ergo Sum

  happy holidays from the center for the development of the person  

“If we did not have our wounds to heal and we only had the Beauty of Life, we would become static and immobile in the ephemeral enjoyment of Beauty” – Antonio Mercurio

Here we are, in the holiday season, and at the end of yet another year with the beginning of a new one just around the corner!

I have been thinking a lot, recently, about love, and hate.

Of course, with the things that are happening around the world, the violence and the hunger and the warming earth, it can be easy to get caught up in thinking that we are never going to get this right, and that we are doomed to destroy ourselves, each other, and this beautiful and delicate globe we call our home.

But then ….. I manage to step back a moment, and remember where I have come from, and look at the progress that others I know are making as well, and I can see that there is much more to all of this than meets the eye.

There is nothing more challenging, and yet more moving and wonderful, than delving into our very lives, with all our wounds, and pain, and loss, and deciding to transform all of that darkness into love, beauty and new creativity.

Every time we manage to shift our focus from resentment to forgiveness (which does not, necessarily, mean reconciliation – the transformation must happen on both sides for that to happen, when too much pain has been caused – but we can forgive, and let go of the pain, hatred and self-justifiable anger); from the need to retaliate or obtain justice to a desire to activate our ability to create beauty in even the most difficult of situations, we are releasing precious energy into our own lives, into the lives of others, and into the Whole of which we are each a single cell.

The more of us that choose to truly experience this, and activate this type of existential Art within their own beings and their own lives, the more we can contribute to the transformative process that Life has entrusted to us as a species.

This is, in essence, what is captured in the affirmation “Amo, ergo sum” – I love, therefore I am: as Antonio Mercurio has so eloquently pointed out, the ability to create love and beauty is both a great gift, and a great task assigned to us. While we must use our ability to think (“Cogito ergo sum”), to use our higher mind, as Descartes declaimed centuries ago, ushering in a new (and most certainly necessary) era of rationality, the time now has come to activate our hearts, in concert with our minds.

Only our hearts can bring us to the kind of deep integration that can heal our own wounds and further the healing process in the entire species.

It is my sincere hope that we can all open our hearts – and our minds – this season, and realize that we are not each others’ enemies, no matter where we are from, what religion we profess, which political party we adhere to, or how much money or education we have, or don’t have: we are each one of us human beings, here to learn to love our own lives and see them for the gift that they are, and work together to create ever new levels of love and beauty.

My best to all, and may each one of us come to know how truly loved and precious we truly are, because when we discover that, and truly understand it, we discover the same thing is true of every other Life

That is when Peace on Earth becomes possible, as it begins within each one of us.

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764px-La_Vierge,_l'Enfant_Jésus_et_sainte_Anne,_by_Leonardo_da_Vinci,_from_C2RMF_retouched Leonardo da Vinci, The Virgin and Child with St. Anne

As Antonio Mercurio pointed out to me a few years ago, this painting shows beautifully what a gaze of love is, from mother to daughter to son/grandson (even above and beyond the purely Christian connotation).

I look at it often (I have a print of it in my office), and I show it to my clients, to remember to gaze upon ourselves with that kind of love. When we can love ourselves freely and responsibly (free from our conditioning and from commitments made from obligation), we can love others with truth and authenticity, and also open ourselves to receive love in a healthy, balanced way.

 
Pain as a Cosmic Force ….. to Create New Love, Beauty, Truth and Freedom!

Pain as a Cosmic Force ….. to Create New Love, Beauty, Truth and Freedom!

This has been an incredible summer for me, to put it mildly. Full of loss and cleansing and shifting …. and now, all kinds of wonderful, new things are emerging.

How are you? I hope you are doing well, and if you are one of the people who had a real time of it this summer, know that you are not alone …. and also, keep in mind that PAIN SERVES TO CREATE ….

I certainly had my share of pain, this summer. Of every type: emotional and spiritual/ existential during the time my mother was dying in June, and when she passed in my presence on July 3rd; physical emotional and existential pain when a strange birth defect that I knew nothing about emerged soon after my mother’s passing, requiring emergency surgery and the removal of a huge piece of my intestine; and more of a bit of everything, when I was challenged to undergo a major dental procedure, just a few weeks after my major abdominal surgery.

 Even writing this out makes my hair stand on end! I can hardly believe that I have gone through all that – and all kinds of other trials regarding family of origin relationships and such – and am emerging not only intact, but more centered and joyful and grateful than ever before.

While I was going through all this I knew in my heart that I was being led through some important cleansing and shifting (I won’t go into the symbolism of all these “deaths” right now – my plan is to write about this over the next few weeks); but what kept me most in good stead was the question: “And what am I being called to create, from so much pain?!?!”.

  This attitude, this way of looking at PAIN as a cosmic force that pushes us not only to be cleansed of our toxins and poisons – physical, psychological-emotional and spiritual – but to make new decisions to create love and beauty to the best of our ability, together with others one day at a time, has truly revolutionized my life over the last couple decades. I certainly saw how deeply it has shaped how I live today during the immense pain I experienced on every level over the last few months.

 I am grateful every day to Antonio Mercurio for having introduced this new way of thinking, which is slightly different from thinking of pain as “just” being necessary for growth – because thinking of actually creating something from a painful experience is quite different from the idea of simply “growing”

Even though our growth is good and important, creating something new means going a step further, and sharing that growth with Life and with others in a deliberate way. This opens up a whole new realm of possibilities, and also of creative responsibility, which are amazingly transforming in themselves. Never before have I been so intensely aware of these subtle, but fundamental differences in this approach, and so grateful to all those forces that brought me to bump into this school of thought all those years ago, and decide to train and specialize in it so I could share it with others.

Never before have I been challenged like I was challenged this summer to hang on to the tiller of my deepest values, and navigate the storm to the best of my abilities, without giving in to the fear and  pain that was often shadowing my heart.

I am not saying that I have not had some really bad days, or still don’t have them, sometimes, as I am still dealing with some pain and limitations and conflicts. But when I remember that I am an Artist of my life, not a Victim, and I am learning every day new ways of loving and caring for myself and others and of receiving love, and am being called to practice this Fine Art of Living and Loving, even the bad days have a different feel to them.

When I tune in to the trust that all of this has a deep purpose for me, and is propelling me towards a new chapter in my life where I am now cleansed and liberated on many different levels, and therefore freer to create new Love and Beauty in my life and in the lives of others in an even more effective way, even the darkest fears and shadows cannot grip my soul or my psyche for too long.

And as the days have gone by, some of the New has begun to unfold around me, which is, of course, an expression of the New within me.

The most important is that I will be leaving for Italy on September 6th, and will be there for an entire month! I already had on my schedule the class I am teaching at the end of September for ISACA, the Institute in Puglia for which I am a Docent (and which I am twinned with, so as to share our strength and wisdom as we develop ourselves as Persons and Artists of our lives, and our training centers in Counseling in Existential Personalistic Anthropology and Cosmoartistic Anthropology); I teach at least one course per year for them, but usually do so at a distance, with videos and written materials and a Skype encounter with the classroom. 

pain as a cosmic force
The Greek-Roman Amphitheater in Lecce, Italy – I have not seen this yet, and definitely plan to go!

 

 

I had played around with the idea of actually trying to go, to be able to teach the class “live” in September, but was not sure I was going to be able to swing it, as I wanted to get my own training program up and running, and a trip outside the country just seemed like trying to pack in too much for me at once.

Instead, while recovering from my surgery, I realized that what I really needed was to go back to my “other home”, Southern Italy, where I lived for 24 years, and where I began my life as a counselor in Existential Personalistic Anthropology/ Cosmoartistic Anthropology. I have not been back since I moved back to my “first home” here in Wisconsin in 2006 …. and during those days of deep reflection (nothing like almost losing your life to make you get in touch with what is really important!) I knew the time had come for me to go back.

As I began to put together the plans for my trip, I received another invitation to teach my class; this time at the IPAE in Cosenza, which is where I did all my education and training and began my personal path of self-discovery and development, 25 years ago! I was absolutely thrilled, and of course accepted the invitation with immense gratitude and joy.

Pain as a cosmic force

The statue of Bernardino Telesio in Cosenza, with the Norman-Swabian castle in the background. 

This is all bringing me deeply in touch with another aspect of the concept of Pain as a Cosmic Force that Serves to Create, and that is that this type of creation is something that is possible only through interaction with others.

In Cosmoartistic Anthropology, Choral Energy is the energy created when two or more people decide to evolve and create together, following the Organismic Principle, which helps us see how deeply interconnected we all are, and how important it is for us each to become Persons capable of loving and expressing ourselves as unique individuals, so we can contribute that uniqueness to the purposes of a larger creation, possible only when two or more come together.

When two or more people choose to participate in the creation of Choral Energy following the Organismic Principle – and this can happen in couples, friendships, families, business and educational and creative groups of all kinds – real Magic can happen! Many of us already experience this on some levels, in our personal or work lives, even though we may not use this language to describe it, or have a real awareness that that is what we are doin

I personally believe that all of us, as human beings, have this deep desire within us – to become Individuals, capable of developing our own Truth, Love, Beauty and Freedom so that we can then contribute it to the development of the whole we are all a part of – but we are not necessarily aware of it. Often times our greatest suffering, alienation and violence towards ourselves and others arise from our feeling cut off and disconnected, from our deepest Selves and from others, but it is exactly this existential pain that can become the motor we need to search out new ways of thinking, acting and living, that can lead us forward to more deeply satisfying lives.

 I know that this was the case for me – it was my feeling of being completely alone and cut off and surrounded by role models that simply did not convince me, either in my personal sphere or in the educational/professional sphere, that drove me to search and search, until I found a “home” where I could finally develop the values that were whispering to me ….  all the way over in Southern Italy, of all places (and I have been asked many times to write of how I got there …. it could be that when I go back now, I will finally have the time and the right state of mind and spirit to do so …).

 And here I am now, more than 30 years later, and going back to the land of my spiritual roots and first blossoms …. after having been completely focused on sorting out other aspects of my life, here in the land I was born and raised in, for the last 10 years.

 I can sense that this is possible thanks to the kind of Choral Energies I today am a part of – my family comprising of my fiancé Jim and our wonderful children Sara, Francesco, Courtney and Alec; the projects I am a part of with my colleagues and collaborators in Italy, first and foremost Antonio and Paola Mercurio and the Sophia University of Rome and all the Centers and Institutes affiliated with it; Bruno Bonvecchi and Ombretta Ciapini of the IPAE in Cosenza, my first Teachers, as well as all of their Staff and students; Daniele Gabriele and Anna De Nitto of ISACA in Puglia, along with all their  Counselors and students; and last but not least, all my wonderful clients, supporters, colleagues and friends here in the US , who have so enriched my life and have enriched me in more ways than I could even begin to describe.

All of this exquisite Choral Energy is now carrying me forward into new levels of creativity and expression, while also asking me to become ever more clear about how to take good care of myself

 Choral Energy requires the presence and participation of Persons – those capable of loving themselves, loving others and receiving love; and while it has its own characteristics that make it unique, it is not a type of group that wants its members to conform to a specific mold, as so many human groups tend to do.

Synthesizing opposites of this type – love and freedom, service and self-care, autonomy and interdependence, etc. etc. etc. – requires a profound decision and willingness to try, and try again and again, as Artists, who painstakingly work at their individual and choral masterpieces, day after day, correcting their mistakes as best as possible, so they can bring forth the greatest beauty they are capable of creating.

But while this does require some sacrifice for the individual – because when we work consciously together in groups, we are called to let go of many things, and cleanse ourselves of some of those poisons which most keep us from our common goal (such as our self-righteous pride, our envy and comparison with others, our greedy wanting more than our share of attention or resources, to just mention a few …. all things that we allare subject to, whether we are aware of it or not, and must be willing to look at, if we are to truly become capable of creating together) – it also means that as individuals we can access levels of sustaining and supportive energy that we simply cannot produce by ourselves.

As I was pondering whether it was wise for me to hop on a plane only a few weeks after having had major surgery, I realized (after getting the O.K. from the surgeon) that while on one level the invitations I had received to teach were opportunities to share with others some of the knowledge and wisdom I have gained over the years, they are also wonderful possibilities to connect with members of my “spiritual family”, and be nurtured by them, and reinforce our bonds while we have the opportunity to discuss and develop in person our mutual creative projects and goals.

Also, as I am planning on offering a full training program here in Existential Personalistic Anthropology and Cosmoartistic Anthropology, it will be really wonderful for me to reinforce my connections with those who already have fully functioning Centers and Institutes. From them I can receive guidance, ideas, and support, to finish putting together the Curriculum I will be offering, while also setting the stage for future collaborations.

This, indeed, is how Choral Energy works – we contribute to it, and we receive from it, just as the organs in the human body all give and receive to and from each other, to collaborate in the great work of art that is human life.

 It is in this spirit that I am packing my bags and readying myself to go back to my “other home” after so long: with great joy, with a new and deeper sense of humility – because as I said before there is nothing like death, both when we lose someone dear to us and we are faced with it ourselves, to bring home to us what is truly important – and also with the clear intention to fill my tanks, so I can share all of the wonderful things I will be experiencing and receiving with others when I come back.